Jourdan’s Unlearning Societal Expectations: Trailblazing a Path for Authenticity
Astuti’s introduction:
Jourdan Hussein is a poster child of an ambitious, successful go-getter.
With multiple degrees from world-renowned universities, work experiences in reputable international organizations, and The President’s Delivery Unit for Development Monitoring and Oversight of the Republic of Indonesia, Jourdan had much to be proud of.
Yet, for years, his heart longed for something else, and these are not the definitions of success in the path he was on. He longed to experience peace, kindness and gentleness beyond success. He had to create another path that allowed him to grow, build, and impact others, care for himself, and experience peace, kindness and gentleness.
Our paths crossed in 2019 when one of his friends, who was also a client, recommended that he reach out to me for support.
At the time, Jourdan was amidst an intensive transformation period as he chose to face his deep, hidden fears to expand his leadership capacity. He was on a quest to find out why he felt compelled to achieve so much in his life yet felt less than loved and enough regardless.
Growing up in a traditional Muslim family in Indonesia, the path he was expected to live was strictly laid out. There was no room for him to embrace his true self as an LGBTQIA+ member.
Yet, Jourdan realized that the only way to feel fulfilled is to create a life where he honours himself as his authentic self.
This is Jourdan’s “Love Wins!” story about his journey in UNLEARNING the societal expectations he once had abided to TRAILBLAZE a path for authenticity. He chooses to live and contribute to the world from a place of love.
Watch the snippet of the reflection here:
Watch the full reflection here:
Listen to Jourdan’s full reflection on Spotify here:






With only a few sessions, I could notice the change within myself.
Through her guidance, I’ve learned to infuse every thought, action, and relationship with these foundational principles, cultivating a sense of harmony and interconnectedness with the world around me. This alignment has brought greater meaning and purpose to my life and deepened my connection to my past-present-future self, others, and the world around me.
At my own pace, I processed the triggers and traumas I had experienced, allowing me to open my heart further and discover the concept of a “higher self” or inner wisdom, a beautiful, kind, and pure voice within that provides insight into authenticity. 
After I completed the full treatment, the negative emotions disappeared. I felt at ease with myself and, therefore, at ease with my dad. As my reactions towards his attitude changed, his attitude changed positively. Our relationship significantly improved – something I wouldn’t even dare to dream of in the past.